Words have a strange power. Take the word "surgery", for example. This week, I discovered that it's a word that strikes fear and concern into the heart of many. And conjures up certain images as well as ideas.
I was scheduled to undergo minor surgery, an outpatient procedure to remove a lump from a place where lumps had no business to be. When I told my friends, all of them reacted with shock, concern and a great deal of worry on my behalf. I felt like a fraud. Mine wasn't a severe condition or a life-threatening matter -- I wasn't even going to be spending a night in the hospital!
My best guess is that "surgery" is associated with grave and somber procedures such as "heart bypass". But the Compact Oxford English Dictionary merely defines surgery as "the branch of medicine concerned with treatment of bodily injuries or disorders by incision or manipulation".
Which I tried to explain to my friends. "It's minor surgery," I said, emphasising the word minor. "The surgeon is just going to cut that part open, take the lump out, and sew me back up. No big deal!"
"These doctors, they always tell you it's minor. Everything is minor to them!" was the reply. I grinned to myself; likely this friend had forgotten that my father is a medical practitioner!
I suppose my background (with my doctor dad) had denuded the word surgery of its 'stigma' in my sight. On the day of the operation, several people asked if I was worried or nervous and I said no, what is there to be worried about? I'm sure I got many strange looks, and even stranger ones when, the next day, I declared I wanted to go out and about.
"You should stay home and rest!" a friend insisted. "You just had surgery!"
"Good grief, I had minor surgery to take out a lump. All the rest of me is okay apart from the part where the surgeon made his incision. I can still walk and everything!" I replied.
My friend's mind was boggled. Not needing to recuperate after surgery? How can this be?
I'd never realised that this word carries so many heavy associations for others. To me, it merely describes a medical procedure; it's the type of surgery that lends weight to the word. That's why I increasingly feel that it's very important to be careful of the words I use, in order that I should convey my intended meaning to others. Sometimes it's not that we use the wrong words; it's that the hearer or reader interprets them differently from the exact dictionary meaning. T'was a good reminder, this.


